Think that you are always jealous? Think that your partner is always overly jealous and controlling? Obsessively checking his/her facebook/instagram? Always fighting because of “unimportant” persons? Constantly wondering what s/he is doing when he doesn’t reply to your message?
Here is a quiz on jealousy, it is possible to do it “on behalf of” your partner when you suspect that your partner might not be “healthily jealous” in your romantic relationship (yes, some level of jealousy is good and healthy to your relationship, but not when it turns detrimental to your relationship).
I do want to apologise that the questionnaire has assumed that every person is in a heterosexual relationship.
N.B. Feel free to contact me regarding the results by leaving your email in the form or leaving a comment below. However, I would say that the result of the questionnaire is not the main thing, instead, look at those items and find out if your partner’s or your jealousy is detrimental to your relationship, and if the answer is yes, do get in touch to find out what can be done.
I need help I have no one to talk to. My partner has morbid jealousy so bad it wrecked our life and we have a 2 yr old together he is accusing me with his nieces husband for the last year it wrecked the entire family and he up and left me and the baby bc I’m this so called cheater. He is very scary he is threatening to kill people. He tells me he has all this evidence against me and literally has delusions of seeing me do stuff that aren’t logical and there is no telling him it’s not real he has no sense of reality he makes up all these stories about me tells me I am doing them fights with me for hours on end and abused me to no end. I have lost my house a car everything bc of this. Literally everything. He takes off on me in spurts the last 2 1/2 years and sleeps in his car refuses to come home bc I’m such a cheater. He has accused me with several different men including 2 neighbors he slept in a chair in our room close to the bedroom door and had alarms set on his phone for every half hour he was convinced I snuck out of bed at night and had sex with all these people. This has been since I’ve gotten pregnant by him. He wrecked my pregnancy he tortured me beyond belief. Everyday. Any special holiday or occasion has been ruined. Every single one. My baby has to be the one to suffer and not understand why her father comes and goes. I am so scared of this man and his twisted thinking … I don’t know what to do. I have no help I am out of work taking care of my baby alone.
Hi Amanda, I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. Your baby and your safety is the utmost important matter right now. I’m not sure where you’re in, but please seek women protection services or organisations near you and let them know what you’re going through. You need help to get yourselves out of this, please reach out to the local authorities and social services. Do not expect that he is still the man you first met or were married with, unless he is willing to seek help and get long term treatment – DO NOT suggest this to him as he doesn’t seem to have insight to his problems. Please try to stay away from him for now and be safe.
I’ve also written you an email, please revert.