She’s newly wed, just half a year ago. But she isn’t happy, as she’s involved with another man, after the proposal, before the wedding.
Few months after her wedding, the husband found out about the affair, by then she has already separated from the man. The husband also chose to forgive her about it.
This makes her feel worse. Within few weeks she was getting more and more depressed. She thinks she ruins their marriage, their lives. She would rather the husband being angry. She knew the husband loves her so much that he can forgive her about it and hopes that nothing like that will ever happen again.
But she feels so sorry, can’t get over with it and slowly develop depression, with agitation. The better the husband treats her, the worse she feels, and the worse she treats the husband back. The husband thinks he must have done something wrong, but doesn’t what to do to help with their relationship. Their marriage is at stake.
The root of the problem is her guilt feelings, that has to be spoken out, to a professional with the husband, that has to be solved, before any other problems it has caused can come to an end.
So speak out, when you feel sorry or guilty, depressed or sad, angry or agitated, you may not know what you’re doing, and may cause things to happen that make you regret for the rest of your life.