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线上/网上心理治疗

在过去的几个月里,我越来越常被问到关于线上治疗的问题,而且也因为患者搬到海外并希望继续她的治疗,我已经做过一些。我一直有来自柔佛不同地区的患者,以及一些来自沙巴和砂劳越的,很多时候大老远过来就只是为了接受治疗。这些人必须花时间和钱定期过来。而我当然理解,现实的各种限制和拘束会导致其他很多人无法这么做。

所以今天在这里,我想更清楚地表达我对此的看法:

  • 我很乐意进行在线心理治疗,最好是用Skype。我也在Wechat上做过在线讲座,也是可考虑的。
  • 有一个明确的初步条件:我要亲自见过你至少一次(理想情况下是两次),进行评估,可以的话也进行一些初步干预。这对我作为治疗师来说非常重要,能够恰当地评估我的病人并一起决定最佳治疗方案。
  • 这不只是即时文字通讯,而是透过视频通话(我要看到你)。我早就听说过一些病人尝试通过电子邮件或即时文字通讯进行在线心理治疗,但通常效果不太好(尤其是问题相对严重的话)。反正我原本就为我的所有患者提供免费whatsapp / wechat支持

所以是的,如果你在寻找线上心理治疗,或想讨论更好的想法,请联系 017-2757813 或 hello@huibee.com。你也可以在这里留言。

附:我也将从今年(2019年)年尾开始在柔佛州(新山或峇株巴辖)开始作咨询和服务。

Re: Online Psychotherapy

I’ve been asked about this quite often in the past few months, and have done it a bit due to clients moving overseas and wanting to continue with her booster sessions. I have always had clients coming all the way from different parts of Johor, and a few from Sabah and Sarawak, just to see me (or sometimes with the psychiatrist drs in my clinic). These are people who have to spend time and costs travelling regularly. I understand it’s not always possible due to all sorts of constraints and logistic issues for many others.

So in this post today, I’d just like to make my opinions about it clearer.

  • I’m happy to do psychotherapy online, ideally over Skype. I’ve done online lectures over Wechat as well.
  • There is a clear preliminary: I’d like to see you at least once (ideally twice) in person first, for the assessment and hopefully some initial intervention. This is important for me as a therapist, to properly assess my clients and decide what’s best for them together.
  • It’s not just instant messaging, I’d want to be able to see you live. I’ve long heard of others trying online psychotherapy that runs through emailing or instant messaging, but no, it doesn’t usually end well. And I offer free instant messaging (whatsapp/wechat) supports to all my patients and clients anyway.

So yes, if you’re interested, or have better ideas, do be in touch on 017-2757813 or hello@huibee.com. You can also leave a comment below.

P.S. I’ll also be starting my practice and service in Johor Bahru or Batu Pahat from later this year (2019).

ACT Therapists in Malaysia

I came across Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in 2011 and fell in love with it almost immediately. Since then I have been practicing it on myself, then subsequently learning it from books, and started to incorporate it into my daily clinical practices.

Now I’ve also completed the course with Russ Harris. I’m wondering if there’s any ACT therapists in Malaysia out there, and if yes, please get in touch (my email: hello@huibee.com, my mobile 017-2757813) and let’s form a Malaysian ACT community together!

 

What’s ACT?

  • It stands for Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, pronounced as “act” (one word)
  • It’s a type of psychotherapy, not a long-term treatment
  • 3rd wave of CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)
  • It focuses on 6 processes, which can be combined into these:
    1. Being present
    2. Opening up
    3. Doing what matters
  • As of late 2018, there are over 250 RCTs (randomized controlled trials, the gold standard of research) published in peer-reviewed journals, that show the effectiveness of ACT with many disorders, such as depression, anxiety, stress, OCD, chronic pain and psychosis.

Support Group is running now!

Yes, since my post written in 2017, I’ve finally managed to organise the first meet-up for Support Group for Anxiety and related problems. It went really well and we were all very pleased to meet each other and made this happened together, despite our levels of anxiety! We will continue to meet monthly and welcome new members.

Meet-ups for Depression and other problems will follow soon…

If you’re interested, please fill in the google form here:

https://goo.gl/forms/PaFNW2LBfOkOOeUv1

 

A few criteria to fulfill:

  • You’ve been assessed or diagnosed with the problem you specified by a mental health professional (be it a psychiatrist or psychologist or GP or…).
  • You’re attending and participating in this willingly, not being forced by others.
  • You are able to arrange your own transport and pay for your expenses.
  • You are able to pay a small fees for administrative/materials purpose.
  • You demonstrate the ability to treat others non-judgmentally and with respect, and maintain confidentiality.
  • In between our monthly meet-ups, we stay connected in Whatsapp group, however, you will only be able to join the group after first showing up in the meet-up.

 

To read more about it, please check out my previous post:

Support Groups in KL/Klang

Suicide Survivor Support Group

Due to my attempts of organising support groups in Klang Valley (more details here), I have encountered people who are searching for support groups for all sort of things.

I just happened to come across this from Befrienders. Please go get in touch with Kenny at 03-7957 1306 or admin@befrienders.org.my if you or someone you know might be interested to attend.

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Stuttering and Stammering

It gets quite uncommon nowadays to meet people who stutter. I used to see it a lot more on TV, and it’s not much presented nowadays. I wonder if people no longer suffer from this problem, or they just don’t get out there and socialise much (so we hardly get to meet them and talk to them). (It also seems that most children grow out of it anyway).

Till few months ago I received an email from a lady in her 20s. She said it was depression that she needs help for. At first, based on what she wrote, I was thinking she might be quite socially anxious. And towards the end, she casually mentioned that she also had stammering issues.

I, also, quite casually replied to her that if she’s keen, I can help her with her stammering issues, on top of her depression. Undeniably I was quite “eager” inside, I was thinking I finally might meet one whom I can put what I learnt into practice.

That was few months ago. Now she almost, no longer stutters. She told me sometimes she will still do it, deliberately, just because she was quite used to it (due to some techniques that I coached her to try), now it’s all under her control, she can do it or not based on her will (just like everyone of us?). She is a lot more confident than when I first saw her, a lot more socially active too. It wasn’t quite “depression”, hence her previous treatments (mainly medication) didn’t help her much.

I don’t think people generally seek help from psychologist for stuttering and stammering issues, but yes, psychotherapy will help, hypnotherapy too. So yes, please get in touch if you happen to be one or know someone who might need this probably-life-changing therapy.

 

Extra knowledge: Stuttering VS Stammering

Stuttering refers to the repetition of words or syllabus when one is speaking, while stammering is when one is unable to make out the sound while speaking.

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