Tag Archives: Johor Bahru / Batu Pahat

线上/网上心理治疗

在过去的几个月里,我越来越常被问到关于线上治疗的问题,而且也因为患者搬到海外并希望继续她的治疗,我已经做过一些。我一直有来自柔佛不同地区的患者,以及一些来自沙巴和砂劳越的,很多时候大老远过来就只是为了接受治疗。这些人必须花时间和钱定期过来。而我当然理解,现实的各种限制和拘束会导致其他很多人无法这么做。

所以今天在这里,我想更清楚地表达我对此的看法:

  • 我很乐意进行在线心理治疗,最好是用Skype。我也在Wechat上做过在线讲座,也是可考虑的。
  • 有一个明确的初步条件:我要亲自见过你至少一次(理想情况下是两次),进行评估,可以的话也进行一些初步干预。这对我作为治疗师来说非常重要,能够恰当地评估我的病人并一起决定最佳治疗方案。
  • 这不只是即时文字通讯,而是透过视频通话(我要看到你)。我早就听说过一些病人尝试通过电子邮件或即时文字通讯进行在线心理治疗,但通常效果不太好(尤其是问题相对严重的话)。反正我原本就为我的所有患者提供免费whatsapp / wechat支持

所以是的,如果你在寻找线上心理治疗,或想讨论更好的想法,请联系 017-2757813 或 hello@huibee.com。你也可以在这里留言。

附:我也将从今年(2019年)年尾开始在柔佛州(新山或峇株巴辖)开始作咨询和服务。

Re: Online Psychotherapy

I’ve been asked about this quite often in the past few months, and have done it a bit due to clients moving overseas and wanting to continue with her booster sessions. I have always had clients coming all the way from different parts of Johor, and a few from Sabah and Sarawak, just to see me (or sometimes with the psychiatrist drs in my clinic). These are people who have to spend time and costs travelling regularly. I understand it’s not always possible due to all sorts of constraints and logistic issues for many others.

So in this post today, I’d just like to make my opinions about it clearer.

  • I’m happy to do psychotherapy online, ideally over Skype. I’ve done online lectures over Wechat as well.
  • There is a clear preliminary: I’d like to see you at least once (ideally twice) in person first, for the assessment and hopefully some initial intervention. This is important for me as a therapist, to properly assess my clients and decide what’s best for them together.
  • It’s not just instant messaging, I’d want to be able to see you live. I’ve long heard of others trying online psychotherapy that runs through emailing or instant messaging, but no, it doesn’t usually end well. And I offer free instant messaging (whatsapp/wechat) supports to all my patients and clients anyway.

So yes, if you’re interested, or have better ideas, do be in touch on 017-2757813 or hello@huibee.com. You can also leave a comment below.

P.S. I’ll also be starting my practice and service in Johor Bahru or Batu Pahat from later this year (2019).

ACT Therapists in Malaysia

I came across Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in 2011 and fell in love with it almost immediately. Since then I have been practicing it on myself, then subsequently learning it from books, and started to incorporate it into my daily clinical practices.

Now I’ve also completed the course with Russ Harris. I’m wondering if there’s any ACT therapists in Malaysia out there, and if yes, please get in touch (my email: hello@huibee.com, my mobile 017-2757813) and let’s form a Malaysian ACT community together!

 

What’s ACT?

  • It stands for Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, pronounced as “act” (one word)
  • It’s a type of psychotherapy, not a long-term treatment
  • 3rd wave of CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)
  • It focuses on 6 processes, which can be combined into these:
    1. Being present
    2. Opening up
    3. Doing what matters
  • As of late 2018, there are over 250 RCTs (randomized controlled trials, the gold standard of research) published in peer-reviewed journals, that show the effectiveness of ACT with many disorders, such as depression, anxiety, stress, OCD, chronic pain and psychosis.

Stuttering and Stammering

It gets quite uncommon nowadays to meet people who stutter. I used to see it a lot more on TV, and it’s not much presented nowadays. I wonder if people no longer suffer from this problem, or they just don’t get out there and socialise much (so we hardly get to meet them and talk to them). (It also seems that most children grow out of it anyway).

Till few months ago I received an email from a lady in her 20s. She said it was depression that she needs help for. At first, based on what she wrote, I was thinking she might be quite socially anxious. And towards the end, she casually mentioned that she also had stammering issues.

I, also, quite casually replied to her that if she’s keen, I can help her with her stammering issues, on top of her depression. Undeniably I was quite “eager” inside, I was thinking I finally might meet one whom I can put what I learnt into practice.

That was few months ago. Now she almost, no longer stutters. She told me sometimes she will still do it, deliberately, just because she was quite used to it (due to some techniques that I coached her to try), now it’s all under her control, she can do it or not based on her will (just like everyone of us?). She is a lot more confident than when I first saw her, a lot more socially active too. It wasn’t quite “depression”, hence her previous treatments (mainly medication) didn’t help her much.

I don’t think people generally seek help from psychologist for stuttering and stammering issues, but yes, psychotherapy will help, hypnotherapy too. So yes, please get in touch if you happen to be one or know someone who might need this probably-life-changing therapy.

 

Extra knowledge: Stuttering VS Stammering

Stuttering refers to the repetition of words or syllabus when one is speaking, while stammering is when one is unable to make out the sound while speaking.

#口吃 #结巴 #治疗 #催眠 #心理治疗

马来西亚催眠治疗

前阵子发现询问关于催眠治疗的人有增加的趋势,而我这两年也开始在马来西亚结合催眠和 CBT (认知行为治疗)还有 ACT (接受与承诺疗法),来使治疗效果更显著一些。我在2012年在英国催眠与催眠治疗学院完成的“认知行为催眠治疗”文凭证书,是一个完全基于科学与研究的催眠学派。从2015年开始,我也跟随来自英国的学院院长,开始在中国北京讲授这门课。

催眠治疗并不是什么神秘魔幻的力量,它用的依然是我们头脑的力量(e.g. ideomotor & ideosensory responses),需要的是患者的积极态度和配合才能生效,所以并不是“躺在那边一两次,问题就全解决了”的。

有兴趣的人,不妨看一看这里,让自己更了解催眠,也更不会被市面上许多没有科学根据、没有实验与临床研究根据的所谓催眠治疗给骗了…

也请大家不妨分享一些好的、比较专业的催眠治疗师。

 

P.S. 有时间的时候,再和大家仔细分享催眠与临床心理学的结合应用。目前我在巴生的私人医院和吉隆坡的精神专科诊所也有在接个案。(2019年尾开始也会在柔佛开始咨询工作)

心理问题/精神疾病病友互助小组(吉隆坡/巴生)

更新 2/4/2019:

吉隆坡焦虑症互助小组已经在2019年三月开跑了,抑郁症互助小组也很即将开始,但是暂时只有英语作为媒介语的。

如果有兴趣参与任何互助小组的话,请填写这个表格:

https://goo.gl/forms/PaFNW2LBfOkOOeUv1


在国外,不管是什么疾病,互助小组(support group)都是蛮常见的,比如抗癌勇士、强迫症患者等。过去也曾有好一些病人问过我,在马来西亚有这种小组吗… 所以在这里我提出一些意见,有兴趣或有其它看法的人,欢迎联络我…

互助小组类型:

  1. 抑郁症、情绪障碍
  2. 强迫症
  3. 焦虑与焦虑相关障碍
  4. 精神分裂,妄想、幻觉相关障碍
  5. 照护者、患者家属

什么是互助小组?做些什么?

  1. 每个月或每两个星期见一次面,大约一小时
  2. 认识和你面对一样或类似问题的人
  3. 轻松讨论一些主题(由我引导)
  4. 彼此分享、鼓励、支持、学习

语言

  1. 英语
  2. 中文/广东话

地点

  1. 吉隆坡欧阳专科医疗所(Jalan Pudu)
  2. 巴生Manipal Hospital Klang (Bukit Tinggi)
  3. 巴生河流域一代的咖啡馆

必要条件:

  1. 病人的意愿(不是被逼的;愿意出席、参与、讨论、分享、聆听)
  2. 至少三人才能进行
  3. 尊重其他人、尊重隐私权(不泄露其他人的隐私)
  4. 承担费用(行政、材料、场地等)(若有)

目前这只是初始阶段,如果你有什么意见和想法、或者有兴趣参与的话,请留下联络方式,也可以电邮 hello@huibee.com 或致电/whatsapp 017-2757813

英文版本:http://huibee.com/2017/08/support-groups-in-kl-klang/